Husband Casting Call 💍

Good Morning Humans & Happy Sunday 🥰

💍Husband Casting Call info below👇😂

Who likes weird girls?

#1 thing ppl need to know about me is I am very sarcastic & laugh a lot at everything, or sometimes nothing at all… I mean hey it’s fun in my brain 👽👀😆🤓

No I am not married, I bought that (fake) gem (Fire Opal) 😍❤️‍🔥 for myself very happily when I became single again years ago to keep the men away for awhile. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️💍

Or filter out the extra crazies right? You know the men who still ask you out after you show him your hand then they say “well he isn’t here now is he?” My response: “Thank you for instantly highlighting you are clearly insane & a cheater even though there was zero chance anyway because IM MARRIED” (to my invisible husband) 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

Nothing to Advocate for today except #1 =

GOD 😇🙏 and my future Husband.

I shared my scripture cards for little while and then got overworked which makes me sick, depleted in every category, and unable to keep doing things I love.

Maybe one day when I have a more relaxing life I will then be able to build consistency for me, therefore for my followers as well and be able to get back into Community more, both IRL & Virtually.

💍 Back to this Ring…

Husband Resumes for Men with Integrity & are not sociopaths can be sent to: hello@stephanieromer.com and you better make it good. 😂😝🤓

Am I joking right now? Sometimes I don’t even know lol.

Tell your hot Man friends that Stephanie’s Husband Casting Call is Now Open. 📣 And anything they try to fake will just be a waste of both of our times so let’s not do that option. I’m too smart for games, it truly never works out for the guy and being very direct and honest is the only way I communicate.

As for everything besides my social media you see? Me outside of Advocacy, Author, & Coaching life? 👇

•Dream Woman over here - 30% dead and ready to laugh about it until I’m actually gone. 😂

•I call myself a “Christian-Hippie” I duno I guess I made it up but it means what it sounds like.

•I do NOT play games with my time on earth!

•I will NEVER hurt you intentionally, even if you hurt me. I will just disappear into the ether if you are even on the line of any form of abuse.✌️

…like seriously, I will literally live at a truck stop in my car bc those men are more protective of me than an abusive partner.

•I have a very fragile body and it ALWAYS comes first. As yours should for you.

•I cannot have children and do not have children. I have been a Nanny for 20 years, I am a Licensed Foster Mother, but currently unable to take children in a new state, also because I am alone and cannot work and be a single mother with a disability/chronic illness.

•I will literally live anywhere lol … do you have a Submarine to get away from all humans by any chance? Lets go 🤿

•I like to be inside & outside pretty much equally.

•I will eat almost anything every once in awhile, but daily I eat like a bird lol. Or sometimes I get so nauseous from food in general I just don’t eat at all. This comes with heart/liver failure.

•I will go literally anywhere, any day of the week if I don’t have appointments or work.

•Me & my CHD & other disability friends have morbid sense of humor so buckle up or just be prepared to be uncomfortable when in the presence of a group of us. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️💀⚰️

•Everything else besides the deep insecurities of never knowing when I’m dying and all that comes with it is pretty easy and I’m cool 👍

*MOST IMPORTANTLY: I am VERY happy alone! 😍 SO, if you fit into my life then great, but if not there is no loss to me if you are mean / disrespectful / anger problems still at our age then um ew no thanks.*

I don’t have a “type” physically. Everything is about what’s inside his heart and if he knows how to use it. ❤️‍🔥

His Family: I would rather be happily exploring the world alone than have to be fake into a family of people who hate me because I don’t fit into their boxes, they don’t “accept” people who aren’t exactly like them, they are intimidated by my intelligence or other characteristics, or secretly don’t like that you chose a “sick girl” who can’t have children or guarantee the length of your life with you.

I see it as a win-win because with me you still have the opportunity to have another wife 😂 so tell them that’s always something to look fwd to.

Okay I’m done. lmao.🤷🏻‍♀️

Let’s pull a scripture on this… What is God’s advice on the above?

… shuffling my cards…

2 Cards came out: Psalm 46:1 and Isaiah 40:31

Happy Sunday everyone, I hope you relax and/or go crazy and have fun! 🤪

Last but not least:

Best AI Version of me is below for my Husband Casting Call, this picture says it all except the health which is like 70% of my life lol.

So here is the 30% …. 😝

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This was so much fun and hilarious when this came to me 2 days ago. I had it auto-published and guess it didn’t so here it is lol.

LOVE & DISABILITY / CHRONIC ILLNESS is NOT EASY for anyone involved. We need someone who can handle struggle and juggle A LOT at once, yet also have the direct and HONEST communication skills to convey when they are overwhelmed to get through life TOGETHER.

Love with a “sick person” is not the healthy person takes it all on then freaks out and blames the sick person. NO!

That is literally gaslighting, crazy-making and deteriorating your relationship.

Being in Love with a “sick person” involves immense amounts of patience and genuinely WANTING this person in every way. If you don’t? If you lie and/or have a secret life of some sort? It will come out in your behavior, lashing out for no reason etc, claiming you have things like “compassion fatigue” which is misdirected anger if you refuse to get help for yourself and deal with your OWN triggers, to not then put that on a VULNERABLE brain and body (the “sick” person).

Being able to COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY when disagreeing stems from GENUINELY loving this person as well, and navigating each individual’s own triggers, taking accountability for our own triggers, and working on them both individually and as a couple.

These are amazing team building skills for any human relationship. Especially with love, which brings out our deepest unresolved pains and triggers.

Know better. Do better. Don’t be afraid of GROWTH, and each individual will evolve which will then naturally make the entire relationship happier and more peaceful.

My “Husband Casting Call” was made to be funny, yet also underneath humor is truth right? So yes absolutely send me your hot-man friends if they fit characteristics or personality type and lifestyle that would go well with me. 🤪🤓

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ADULTS & PARENTS OF TEENS:

I am doing a short series on up to 30 MINUTE Q&A Videos to cover questions people have asked me through the years that I have now either just seen or haven’t been able to respond to due to countless circumstances.

Drop Questions below about any subject or send them into HELLO@STEPHANIEROMER.COM to me and/or Alex for a man’s POV. Any other CHD or other Illness/Disability men interested in joining, just email us! ❤️‍🔥

First Q&A Video is about Food & what I eat to help gain & balance a healthy weight as much as I can.

That is coming soon!

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Thank you!! 😍